A therapist, a counselor and a psychologist are not the same thing. They have different training, different scopes of practice and different strengths. Knowing which one matches your situation saves you weeks of wrong appointments and wasted energy.
This is the short version. For the full breakdown including psychiatrists and nurse practitioners, see our complete provider guide for PPD.
The comparison table
Counselor (LPC, LMHC) | Therapist (LCSW, LMFT) | Psychologist (PhD, PsyD) | |
|---|---|---|---|
Training | Master's degree in counseling | Master's degree in social work, marriage/family therapy or psychology | Doctoral degree in psychology |
Can diagnose? | Varies by state/country | Varies by state/country | Yes |
Can prescribe medication? | No | No | No (in most states/countries) |
Typical approach | Supportive counseling, coping strategies, emotional processing | Evidence-based therapy (CBT, IPT, EMDR, DBT) | Assessment, diagnosis, structured treatment programmes |
Session length | 50 to 60 minutes | 50 to 60 minutes | 50 to 90 minutes (assessment sessions longer) |
Cost (US, self-pay) | $75 to $150/session | $100 to $200/session | $150 to $300/session |
Insurance coverage | Often covered | Often covered | Often covered but may require referral |
Waitlist (typical) | Shorter | Moderate | Longer, especially for specialists |
Best for new moms when... | You need someone to talk to about adjustment, stress or mild mood changes | You need structured treatment for PPD, anxiety, trauma or relationship issues | You need formal diagnosis, testing, or a complex presentation that needs specialist assessment |
What each one actually does in session
With a counselor: You talk about how you are feeling. The counselor listens actively, validates your experience and helps you develop coping strategies. Sessions are supportive and relationship-focused. A counselor is well-suited for the "I'm struggling but I'm not sure if it's a diagnosable condition" phase.
With a therapist: You work through a structured treatment protocol. If you are doing CBT, that means identifying negative thought patterns, challenging them and practising new behaviours between sessions. If you are doing EMDR for birth trauma, the therapist guides you through reprocessing. Therapists are best when you know what the problem is and need a proven method to address it.
With a psychologist: You receive a thorough clinical assessment. Psychologists can administer formal diagnostic tools, differentiate between overlapping conditions (PPD vs PPA vs PTSD vs OCD) and design a treatment plan. If your presentation is complex, a psychologist is the starting point.
Decision flowchart
Start here: What do you need most right now?
"I need someone to listen and help me cope." → Counselor. Lower cost, shorter waitlists, supportive approach.
"I need treatment for a specific issue (depression, anxiety, birth trauma)." → Therapist trained in CBT, IPT or EMDR. Ask specifically: "Do you have experience with perinatal mental health?"
"I'm not sure what's wrong. I might have depression, or anxiety, or PTSD, or all three." → Psychologist for assessment first, then treatment (which may be with a therapist or the psychologist themselves).
"I need medication." → None of these three can prescribe. You need your GP, a psychiatrist or a psychiatric nurse practitioner. See our full provider guide for details.
The question that matters more than the title
The most important question is not "what letters are after their name?" It is "do they have experience with postpartum mothers?"
A counselor with ten years of perinatal experience will serve you better than a psychologist who has never treated a new mother. When you call or email, ask directly:
- Do you have experience with postpartum mood and anxiety disorders?
- What approach do you use? (CBT, IPT, EMDR, psychodynamic?)
- Are you trained or certified in perinatal mental health? (Look for PMH-C from Postpartum Support International)
- Do you offer online or telephone sessions?
Postpartum Support International maintains a directory of over 8,000 professionals with perinatal mental health certification: postpartum.net/get-help.
"Not all mental health professionals are trained in perinatal mental health. Although these conditions are common, not all doctors are trained in diagnosing and treating pregnant and postpartum people." - American Psychiatric Association
When to start with your GP instead
If you are unsure whether you need a counselor, therapist or psychologist, your GP is a reasonable first step. They can:
- Screen you with the EPDS and GAD-7
- Prescribe medication if needed
- Refer you to the right type of specialist
- Monitor your progress
Our EPDS guide explains what the screening involves. And our action plan after your score tells you exactly what to do with the result.
If you have been putting off making the call, this article on why every new mom should consider therapy makes the case for acting before things get worse. And if the barrier is emotional rather than practical, how to ask for help without feeling weak is written for exactly that moment.
Sources and further reading
- American Psychiatric Association. (2025). What is perinatal depression? psychiatry.org
- Postpartum Support International. (2026). PMH-C certification and provider directory. postpartum.net
- CANMAT. (2024). Clinical practice guideline for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Canadian Journal of Psychiatry / PMC.
- Cleveland Clinic. (2025). Therapist vs psychologist vs counselor: what's the difference? clevelandclinic.org





